The holiday season is an excellent time to reflect on what really matters. As the end of one year and the beginning of another, we can be grateful for the blessings in our lives and look ahead to the changes we hope to make. 

Last year, while celebrating Christmas Eve at my in-laws’ home, "It's a Wonderful Life" was playing in the background. Directed by Frank Capra and based on Philip Van Doren Stern's 1943 short story "The Greatest Gift," this timeless classic remains one of the most cherished films of all time. 

The film stars James Stewart as George Bailey, a man who sacrifices his dreams for the sake of others. On Christmas Eve, he contemplates suicide but is saved by his guardian angel, Clarence, who shows him the profound impact his life has had on those around him. 

Through Clarence’s guidance, George sees how different life would be for his wife, Mary, and their community of Bedford Falls if he had never been born. Watching this, I couldn’t help but reflect on my own life and the “what ifs.”

While I was enjoying the film, I was also aware of the game of Risk my son, Preston, was playing with others. This contrast led me to ponder: Are we now living in Pottersville? 

Just the other morning, I was struck by the barrage of commercials promoting gambling and payday lenders while watching the news. It made me think about the challenges our community faces as more individuals fall victim to exorbitant interest rates and gambling addictions, risking everything they’ve worked hard for. 

These are problems that affect many Tennesseans and many Americans, regardless of political persuasion, race or gender. Like many kitchen table issues, we should be able to work together in search of solutions.

"It's a Wonderful Life" is rich with important life lessons. Perhaps I’m becoming more old-fashioned or philosophical with age, but I thought of the importance of civility and focusing on unity rather than division.

Our nation is indeed politically divided, a narrative highlighted every four years by a relentless news cycle. The 2024 election demonstrated the vast differences between the political parties. Hostility between candidates like Trump and Vice President Kamala Harris reflects a broader trend of division. A survey from the American Bar Association found that 85% of Americans believe civility has declined over the past decade, with social media and public officials often cited as key drivers of this decline.

During my time in the General Assembly, I’ve gained a unique perspective on the nature of our legislative body. While portrayed as divided, there is a sense of mutual respect that transcends political affiliations. I have friends who are Democrat lawmakers, and despite our disagreements, we recognize that life is about more than politics. We should encourage honest debate while avoiding insults and division. As U.S. House Speaker Mike Johnson noted, enduring ideas emerge from intense debate and informed dialogue.

In reflecting on "It's a Wonderful Life," I am reminded of the importance of community, respect and the need for meaningful conversations that focus on the issues that truly impact our lives. Let's work together to foster civility and collaboration for a brighter future.